Ghamal, 17 years old, CT

Ghamal’s early childhood was marked by significant loss and instability. His mother passed away when he was just four years old. Over the next ten years, he lived at different times with his father and grandmother. Ghamal’s father struggled deeply with grief and turned to alcohol to cope. As a result, Ghamal experienced neglect, abuse, and maltreatment during some of his most formative years. When circumstances did not improve while living with his grandmother, child protective services became involved, and Ghamal eventually went to live with a relative. He hoped this would be a new beginning, but the placement brought its own challenges. His caregiver, however, was very protective and rarely allowed him to experience his community and make friends. Because Ghamal wanted to explore his new environment and wasn't allowed, conflicts at home became increasingly difficult. Eventually, the placement was disrupted, and Ghamal required inpatient treatment to help him through a particularly challenging period. Afterward, he transitioned into foster care and was placed with a foster family. Since then, Ghamal has had tremendous growth, increased stability, and hope.

Wishes submitted by:

Department of Children and Families, Connecticut