Tayla, 20 years old, OR | 19 DAYS WAITING |

Wish submitted by:

The Lost & Found Institute

Tayla spent much of her youth cycling through foster homes, group placements, and juvenile detention centers, always feeling like she was being labeled rather than understood. As a "high-risk youth," she was constantly denied the privileges and freedoms that other young people in care had, reinforcing the belief that she was different—less deserving, less trustworthy. Running away became her way of reclaiming control, a survival tactic she had learned long before entering the system. Before foster care, she had already experienced homelessness, learning how to navigate life on her own terms. Survival mode was her normal, and no placement ever felt like home. Now, Tayla is turning her lived experience into action as an advocate for runaway youth. She understands firsthand the challenges young people face when they feel unheard and unsupported, and she’s determined to create spaces where their voices matter. Through her advocacy, she pushes for changes in how systems respond to runaway youth, fighting for policies that center their needs rather than punish them for their trauma responses.

For her birthday, Tayla is asking for a cute dress that will help her feel confident, joyful, and truly celebrated. Having a special outfit chosen just for this occasion would mean a lot to her. It’s not just about the dress itself, but about feeling good in her body, stepping into her day with excitement, and creating cherished memories. A birthday dress would make this occasion meaningful and fun, giving Tayla the opportunity to express her style and feel extra special as she celebrates another year of life.