From Carlos:" Some of the most defining moments in foster care for me are not being with my siblings, domestic violence being the reason we are in foster care, group homes, foster homes, group home rules, not being home, staying positive, keeping a good attitude towards the future, "worrying" about yourself, stubborn parents, the conversations with parents, the difficulty to keep a relationship with siblings over a phone or thru 2 hour visits, child support for my single mom who did it all on her own without any of my siblings dads or my dad involved. It was all very tough."