Essence lost her mother at a young age and moved between different family members until her early adolescence, when she came to the attention of the foster care system. She has always been reserved, self-reliant, and mature beyond her years. After aging out of the system and participating in extended foster care, she evolved into a social and community-oriented young adult. Essence enjoys driving around Los Angeles in her car, spending time with friends, braiding and styling their hair, and finding creative ways to express herself.