Tayla, 20 years old, OR | 19 DAYS WAITING

Wish submitted by:

The Lost & Found Institute

Tayla spent much of her youth cycling through foster homes, group placements, and juvenile detention centers, always feeling like she was being labeled rather than understood. As a "high-risk youth," she was constantly denied the privileges and freedoms that other young people in care had, reinforcing the belief that she was different—less deserving, less trustworthy. Running away became her way of reclaiming control, a survival tactic she had learned long before entering the system. Before foster care, she had already experienced homelessness, learning how to navigate life on her own terms. Survival mode was her normal, and no placement ever felt like home. Now, Tayla is turning her lived experience into action as an advocate for runaway youth. She understands firsthand the challenges young people face when they feel unheard and unsupported, and she’s determined to create spaces where their voices matter. Through her advocacy, she pushes for changes in how systems respond to runaway youth, fighting for policies that center their needs rather than punish them for their trauma responses.

Tayla wishes for a pair of pink pants that she can wear every day—something comfortable enough for daily wear but still looks cute and put-together. She wants pants that are easy to style with her usual outfits, suitable for running errands or hanging out, and that help her feel confident without sacrificing comfort. Pink is her preferred color, and having a go-to pair of pants that are both cozy and stylish would be something she could reach for all the time.