Toby, 12 years old, NJ | NEEDED BY 08/28

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Toby is a remarkable young man navigating the challenges of preteen life in a new environment. After months without contact, he received the devastating news of his father's death, leaving him to grapple with the pain of this tragedy while trying to find his footing in the world. Despite attending a therapeutic recreation team where he focuses on football, Toby continues to mourn his dad and experiences bouts of depression. His parents were young, had low income and were separated, but he cherished the time spent with his father during their bi-weekly visits, making the recent news of his father's absence all the more heart-wrenching. Toby finds solace in football, video games, basketball, and outdoor activities. Supporting Toby during this challenging time is crucial as he seeks to heal and navigate his path forward.

Toby is a remarkable preteen navigating the profound grief of losing his father, and to help him regain some normalcy and confidence, we are organizing a therapeutic day out for him to go back-to-school shopping with a supportive friend from his therapy group. As a passionate skateboarder, Toby is excited to choose trendy, skater-inspired gear, particularly distressed jeans, which will help him express himself as he prepares for the new school year. This outing is much more than just shopping; it serves as a crucial step in his healing process, providing a welcome break and a sense of care during a challenging time.