Xan, 19 years old, CA

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Xan has spent most of his life in foster care, facing a lot of instability and change. Even with these challenges, he has developed a strong resilience that helps him as he becomes an adult. Now, Xan is focused on creating a stable and independent life for himself, based on growth, responsibility, and hope. He approaches this new chapter with an open mind and a willingness to learn. Xan is kind, friendly, and thoughtful, which helps him build real connections with others. He loves tattoos and piercings, and he enjoys gaming and hanging out with friends—activities that make him feel grounded and connected. Xan is working hard to overcome the difficulties that come with growing up in care, and he is taking positive steps toward independence. With the right support, he can create a strong foundation for his future, one that is shaped by his determination and potential rather than his past.

Xan has spent his life in foster care and adoptive placements without a clear understanding of his biological roots or family history. As he has gotten older, he has become more interested in learning where he comes from and who he is connected to. Receiving a 23andMe ancestry DNA kit would give Xan the opportunity to explore his heritage and better understand his background. It may also help him identify possible biological relatives he has not had the chance to know. For Xan, this is about more than curiosity. He has sometimes struggled with identity and feeling disconnected from a sense of belonging. Learning more about his ancestry could help him build a stronger sense of self, emotional grounding, and connection to others.